In the ever-evolving world of TikTok, few stories have captured South Africa’s attention quite like the recent breakup drama between Ziya and her ex-boyfriend, Caliva. Their whirlwind romance, public split, and the viral fallout have not only entertained but also sparked conversations about modern relationships, expectations, and—surprisingly—grammar.
From Online Sparks to Viral Heartbreak
Ziya and Caliva’s romance began in May 2025, after a chance encounter during a TikTok Live session. The chemistry was instant, and despite living in different provinces—Caliva in Makhanda and Ziya in Gauteng—they decided to pursue a long-distance relationship. Their story quickly resonated with viewers, even earning them return bus tickets from Intercape as a gesture of support for their love.
But just as quickly as it began, the relationship unraveled. Within a month, followers were blindsided by news of their breakup, which exploded into a public spectacle when private WhatsApp conversations leaked online.
The Breakup: Grammar, Hustle, and Unmet Expectations
The leaked messages revealed a relationship strained by more than just distance. Ziya’s frustrations with Caliva’s unemployed status became a recurring theme, with her expressing concern over his lack of job applications and ambition. However, what truly set social media ablaze was her criticism of his grammar and punctuation in texts. Ziya insisted she couldn’t read his messages due to his use of full stops and commas, prompting Caliva to painstakingly rewrite his responses to appease her.
“It hurt me when she said ‘please re-write the p(h)aragraph in a readable way’ and he did! 🥺” — TikTok user comment
Many followers saw through the grammar complaints, speculating that financial issues were the real deal-breaker. Ziya’s repeated mentions of her broken phone and subtle hints for financial help fueled the perception that she expected Caliva to be a provider—a role he wasn’t ready or able to fill.
Public Reaction: Team Caliva or Team Ziya?
The breakup divided TikTok and Twitter, with many rallying behind Caliva. Supporters praised his humility and ambition, especially after he began showcasing his talents as a radio presenter, public speaker, and mental health advocate in the wake of the split. Others empathized with Ziya, arguing that a partner should be driven and able to provide stability.
“For the first time, I’m on a man’s side.” — Social media user
The Aftermath: Growth and Glow-Ups
Since the breakup, Caliva has embraced the spotlight, using the experience as motivation to push harder in his career and personal development. He’s been actively promoting his skills and booking gigs, with many followers cheering on his transformation and newfound confidence.
Meanwhile, the saga has prompted broader discussions about the pressures of online relationships, financial expectations, and the sometimes-petty reasons couples call it quits in the digital age.
Final Thoughts
The Ziya and Caliva drama is more than just a messy breakup—it’s a mirror reflecting the realities of young love in 2025. Whether you side with Ziya’s desire for ambition or Caliva’s journey of self-improvement, one thing is clear: in the age of TikTok, even grammar can break a heart.
Stay tuned as the story continues to unfold—because on South African TikTok, love and drama are always just a DM away.
