South African radio and media personality Anele Mdoda recently gave fans an intimate glimpse into her married life during a heartfelt episode of the popular podcast What Now with Trevor Noah. Joined by comedian Trevor Noah and fellow radio host Sizwe Dhlomo, Anele shared candid reflections on her traditional marriage to advocate Bonelela “Buzza” James, revealing how much joy and support her union has brought her.
“I’m Spoiled, I’m Pampered” — Anele’s Take on Marriage
Anele Mdoda radiated happiness as she described her experience as a newlywed, emphasizing how her marriage defies traditional gender expectations. “I’m spoiled, I’m pampered, it’s nice. I do nothing, which is great,” she said with a smile. Contrary to the stereotypical notion that women must shoulder household chores, Anele explained, “The real marriage is that it’s the man that does everything.” She added with a laugh that all she needs to do is cook, and that’s about it.
This refreshing perspective highlights a modern partnership based on equality and mutual care, a dynamic Anele clearly treasures.
Finding an Equal Partner and Feeling Protected
One of the most touching parts of Anele’s conversation was her description of the emotional security her marriage provides. “It’s so nice to find a partner, like I’ve literally found an equal — like he’s my dude, he’s my guy,” she shared. Anele expressed how safe and protected she feels, noting that her husband is “the one person in the world that I don’t have to convince to be on my side. He is automatically on my side.” This sense of unwavering support is a cornerstone of her happiness in marriage.
A Glimpse Into Their Wedding and Future Plans
While Anele and Buzza have celebrated their traditional wedding, their white wedding is still forthcoming, an event eagerly anticipated by friends and fans alike, including Trevor Noah and Sizwe Dhlomo who expressed excitement about attending.
Anele’s wedding was a beautiful celebration of her Xhosa heritage, featuring intricate beadwork and vibrant traditional attire, reflecting her pride in culture and identity.
Anele’s Marriage: A New Chapter of Joy and Contentment
For Anele Mdoda, 2025 is proving to be a year of both professional success and personal fulfillment. Her openness about her marriage on such a widely listened-to platform not only endears her further to fans but also offers a refreshing narrative about partnership, respect, and love in modern South Africa.
Her story is a reminder that marriage can be a source of joy, support, and equality — a partnership where both individuals uplift and cherish each other.
This heartfelt episode of “What Now with Trevor Noah” featuring Anele Mdoda and Sizwe Dhlomo premiered on June 19, 2025, and is available on YouTube and various streaming platforms.
