Ayanda was the wife of the late Sfiso Ncwane who was a great gospel artist and a performer.

It turns out Sfiso had a child outside his marriage with Ayanda.

The child’s name is Nothile and the mother is Nonku.

Ayanda knew about Nonku and the child but never got to meet them when her husband was still alive .


On the first episode of a South African reality show called Real Housewives of Durban, Nonku introduced herself to Ayanda.

On the very last episode of Real Housewives of Durban, Nonku changed on Ayanda.

Nonku ganged on Ayanda with her mother that she must pay for damages since her husband failed to.

Ayanda was very much in shock and asked why didn’t they ask for damages when her husband was still alive.

Ayanda literally cried when a huge bombshell was dropped on her by Nonku and her mother.