Wife of the late Gospel artist Sifiso Ncwane, Ayanda has come out and revealed the difficulties of being a widow.
Though she says this is a tough life to live but its a walkable journey.
Ayanda is part of a television show called Housewives of Durban shown on Showmax.
She posted a picture of herself with an unknown man, both of them looked wealthy.
A lot of people have been speculating that this could be the man she wants to have a child with.