Musa Mseleku recently posted a video on his YouTube channel explaining how to be a successful polygamist. He revealed that a polygamous marriage was not an easy one.
Mseleku said one of the secrets to making a polygamous marriage successful was to give power and respect to the women. Thus the women will feel respected and that they are in control.
He also revealed that engaging the women and explaining the reasons why you wanted another wife or wives was important for one to be a successful polygamist.
Mseleku added that a man must never force or fight to be a polygamist nomater how rich and powerful one is.
He concluded by saying he does not use physical or financial power in his polygamous marriage. Rather he makes the women feel equal to him.